Let's get started. Getting a girl of your dreams is much like getting the car of your dream. But unlike a car which you can always bargain for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount in courting the girl of your dreams, she's so sweet a thing to be discounted, you dearly are in love with her and your feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is - faint heart, never won fair lady.
The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!
- Straightforward is the best approach. And don't forget that actions really do speak louder than words. So many people carelessly toss those three words around. Tell her, but then back up those words by showing her. Nothing major or elaborate is necessary. Little things can be so much more meaningful than overblown displays. For example, I'll always prefer receiving a daisy picked in the park on a whim over a dozen long stemmed roses bought because he thinks it's supposed to be romantic.
- You just tell her. She may not say it back, but she will feel flattered that you love her.
- Anyone can just say i love you, but WHY do you love her? Tell her Why, what it is about her that makes you love her. I know its cheesy but girls love that stuff!
- You don't need to tell her at first. Just show her that you love her by helping her do whatever she is doing, take her to romantic places, buy her nice things, the most important things is to make her feel good around you, show her that you care about her (remember that action speaks louder than words), take things slowly, then step by step things will happen naturally. the key point is not to tell her your feelings, but make her feel you emotions and she will express her love to you. Trust me, that is how I won my girl, I never told her anything, I made her feel it, and that is just the sweetest thing.
- You just tell her how you feel. If it truly love that your feeling than tell her. If your scared or nervous than you better rethink your feelings somemore, because when you tell a woman that you love them, your actually saying that you are laying everything out in the open for that person.
- If you think that she will be okay after you tell her and it won't scare her out of a friendship, then I suggest you pick an appropriate moment. I would tell her when the two of you are uninterrupted and alone, and pose it in a way that you can make her feel comfortable. Make sure you dont leave it too long else she may not realise and you could lose out to someone else.
- First start by letting her know you are interested. Then as you get to know her better then you can pick a romantic spot and come right out and say it.
- Tell her about your feelings and let her know you are in love with her. If she can't handle it and runs away the relationship wasn't real. As they say, "keep it real."
- Be honest and straightforward. That's always the best thing in relationships.
- You don't. Let her tell you that. Give her the mixed signals that you like her but practice the rule of three 'C's. Control (for Self-Control), Confident and Challenge. Practice 'Self-Control' and 'Confident' whenever you are with her or on dates. And of utmost important be a 'Challenge' to her. Don't be Mr. Predictable as most guys are as if they haven't seen a beautiful girl in ages. Let her think of you when you are not around. And you sure would get what you want.
- As a girl, I can honestly say that having a guy tell you "I love you" can be very intimidating, depending on the situation. By your actions, let her know you love her. Do things that she likes to do, hug her when you see her, hold her hand. Girls pick up on that, trust me. I'm not saying that you shouldn't tell her how you feel, because that definately needs to happen. Just remember that words without action don't mean a thing.
- You must be really sure of your feelings before you tell her anything. Take her to a lonely place of you choice, any place where the only thing you can hear is yourslef talking to her; grab her hands look at her straight in her eyes tell her how she makes you feel, take it easy step by step don't rush to the "I love you" phrase, tell her what she means to you, don't say you love her, she may freak out just because of the simple fact that some girls are just not ready for those words so you'll be better off telling her how she makes you feel and what you mean to her. After that you may ask her what she thinks of what she just heard from you be a listiner don't speak if she looks at you with a smile and then kisses you and hugs you, don't worry you are going the right way just remember don't rush to the "I love you" part.
- Personally, I think it pays to be honest, and if worst case, you find out she doesn't feel the same, then at least you will know. Most likely though, she does especiallly if you are already involved in some way. As long as it comes from the heart it will be recieved in a good way and she will respect your truthfulness.
- You just go right up and tell her. It's better when you two are alone of course. Remember if you don't try, you never know.
- I like the buddy thing myself, you should really show her that you will be there for her whenever she needs you, love is something that is felt, and if your friends with her long enough, she will feel that you love her, and actions always speak louder than words. whenever you are around her look in her eyes, you will be able to tell if she wants you to tell her u love her ;)
- If you love a girl I think you should show her first and then tell her. And don't be an ass and tell lots of girls you love them. Give the words some meaning. A lot of soul searching has to be done before you tell anyone you love them. The easiest way to find out if you love someone is to put yourself in a hypothetical. If you were in the worst place in the world but she would be right there beside you could you still be happy?
- My ex called me and told me he needed to tell me something, but he couldn't tell me over the phone. He said he was going to come over, and arrived at about midnight. We stood in my porch, he kissed me, put his arms around me, then looked me in the eyes and just said he loved me. Was so romantic and so genuine. It was before I felt the same way, but it was such a strong emotion, and I could tell he meant it -- I felt so overwhelmed I nearly cried.
- Always remember this thing in life: "Those who are over conscious never gain." So if you really love a girl just go and tell her so. Don't think too much.
- Just tell her 'I love you' or something very direct like that. If it the first time you are going to tell her that then try to make a nice romantic setting. Doesn't need to be fancy...maybe turn down the lights and light a few candles...put on some nice music. That will help set the mood, but really all you need to do is be upfront and tell her. Many times people stress out over telling their partner they love them. But think about it...this is the person you love. You shouldn't feel ashamed or embarassed or anything like that. Just tell her plain and clear.
- Plain and simple: be honest and straightforward. Tell her everything you feel. That's the best course of action.
- Tell her love her by taking her to candle light dinner.
- dude listen up! the easiest thing to do is just say it. she may not say it back but she will be flattered that you said it. after that act normal and if she loves you back she will let you know eventually. its like a waiting game
Every time we embrace,
I go to that far away place
When we just walk hand in hand.
I’m in never, never land.
Whenever I look into your eyes,
I begin to get butterflies,
Then my heart skips a beat,
And our lips passionately meet.
You are always on my mind,
Your face is all it can find.
I think about you every day
And know it’ll work out somehow, some way.
Some say we’re dumb and foolish
Some say we should do as we wish
But all my heart could ever do
Is tell you that I’ll always LOVE YOU.
I never knew there would be a better tomorrow
But you've come into my life and taken away all my sorrow
My days of sadness are a thing of the past
Because I have found true love at last
My days of emptiness are gone for good
Because you fill a void in my heart that you should
You've opened a window
You've shown me the light
And my love for you will continue to burn bright.
On the wings of an eagle,
My love for you flies.
Soaring higher and higher,
And touching the skies.
I reached up above,
And pulled a star from the sky.
To place it within,
Your precious minds eye.
To dwell there forever,
As my love for you.
On the wings of our love,
Enduring and true.
I honor you my darling,
With all that I am.
Please darling please,
Will you be my man?
There are so many things,
My heart wants to say.
I love you sweetheart,
There is no other way.
